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Humbled Males

I've included below, in very simple terms, more reasons why Women are the superior sex. No frills, just straight-shooting honesty you boys might not hear so often:

Women make life happen.

Women and men are indeed different, and it is a difference to be proud of if you are Female. We nurture and give life to the world. Our bodies are amazing in what they do; from carrying a child to nursing, to raising another human being into adulthood. We are intuitive and naturally wise as Mothers, ensuring the perpetuation of our species. We don't find it maniacally important to kill and break stuff, which men unfortunately seem to have a penchant for.

Sperm is cheap, Eggs are expensive.

It takes an entire month's cycle for the viability of an egg, whereas sperm—the disposable male reproductive cell designed to deteriorate after its purpose is ended—is produced by the millions daily. Our eggs are never ejaculated frivolously and wiped up with toilet paper or a sock. Consider that.

And why do boys have nipples?

Because in the womb, we all start out as Female—two perfect XX chromosomes. Only when an alternate gene is introduced does the developing embryo become XY (male)—a mutation of life's original template, produced to accommodate the necessary process of sexual reproduction. In short, Women are complete human beings, and men are nothing more than genetically modified Women.

Poor boys. That's a pretty tough thing to acknowledge about yourselves, isn't it? That in the end you are nothing more than sperm incubators who must justify your existence through labor and sacrifice when not getting milked for semen. But take heart; you at least still have one X on your side, and you can bet the soft sack between your legs that the X is from where your better qualities derive.

The overall blueprint.

Genetically, Women are more complex than men. Men are more prone to a number of diseases, and Women usually outlive men by an average of seven years. Women bear the most vital sexual organs. Women on average use more of their brains than men. Women have a higher pain tolerance than men. Women generally have better sensory ability than men. On average, Women are healthier than men of their own age.

Outside of making sperm, Women have proven they can do anything just as well as a man can do—and often better—but the same cannot be said of men. Men will never carry and give birth to a child. Men will never breast feed. Men will never have the maternal instinct and natural intelligence Women possess.

The power of reason and intuition.

While there are always exceptions to every rule, it is clear that most Women have it all over men in the areas of balanced judgment and intuition. Recent research about the differences between Female and male brains now proves it, too. The main hub for emotion and memory formation is larger in a woman's brain, as is the wiring for social and empathetic skills. It seems nature gave us Females tremendous powers of observation and an ability to attune to our senses, to make judgments based upon the more advanced communication between the emotive and analytical. After all, without these qualities, we wouldn't make very good Mothers, would we? Our lives aren't spent mindlessly gratifying our sexual needs, or kicking balls around in a field.

Seeker vs. Source and the principal of least interest.

But let's not be so hard on men. After all, they obviously have their part to play in procreation. Someone has to be the one who chases, and that is certainly the male role. This is not something to be discouraged—so long as it's done right. Men's animal desires become the impetus to pursue and serve Women, and that's not something I'd change at all. I find that so long as a man is bred well and knows his place, it is a pleasure to enable the slavery he suffers to his own senses; it is the invisible leash Women have enjoyed tugging at the necks of men for thousands of years and will continue doing so for thousands more.

Simple beauty.

So now we arrive at the last (and some say most shallow) article of praise for Women. Let's face it—Women are just plain hot, and there really isn't anything shallow about that at all, when you consider the things men will do and have done for beauty. Of course, there are some beautiful males in the world, too, but aesthetically pleasing men are not nearly as abundant as aesthetically pleasing Women. Women can stop traffic with their looks. Men are advised to always use the cross walk.

Other Interesting Facts

Men now make up only 42 percent of the nation's college students. As the playing fields have leveled, Women are outperforming men in almost every category. [Source]

Men commit a substantially greater amount of violent crime than Women. Of the total number of homicide victims in a 2004 study, 78 percent were male and 22 percent were female. A breakdown of the data by gender showed that 90.1 percent of the offenders were male and 9.9 percent were female. [Source]

Girls develop and mature faster than boys. [Source]

Recent findings in modern biology suggest we may someday be capable of scientifically-assisted pathogenesis (reproducing without males). Hmmm... [Source]

Studies prove Women have better memory than men. [Source] [Source]

The current highest recorded IQ belongs to a Female. Marilyn vos Savant (born Marilyn Mach on 11 August 1946) is an American magazine columnist, author, lecturer, executive and playwright who rose to fame through her listing in the Guinness Book of World Records under "Highest IQ." [Source]

Quote a woman named, ShaktiSama.

"Male dominance is the norm. It is ALREADY IMPOSED ON SOCIETY, and has been for THOUSANDS OF YEARS. The idea that males are the superior gender and that males should enjoy special powers and privileges, that women are the inferior gender and should be grateful to be permitted to serve men at best, is NOT a new idea that needs some kind of special defense from men OR women.

You find it offensive that I think that female submission should be a private and personal choice, rather than a role that is forced upon ALL women by their society's institutions? Good! I'm glad to have offended someone who is basically, at core, a misogynist bigot. No apologies will be forthcoming, now or ever, for causing offense to someone who believes that all women are inferior and should be treated as such.

Please, be offended. In fact, if you and everyone else like you, male dominant misogynists and female submissive apologists for a misogynist system alike, would be so kind as to hold your breath until I deign to give a fuck how offended you are? It would improve this planet a good deal.

Would even create a lot of new jobs. We'd need a whole lot of people to dig graves.

Seriously. I am sick of you anti-progressive Neanderthals and your vapid defense of injustice and bigotry based soley in your petty little kinks. Nobody is trying to deprive you of your trivial sex games, but if you HONESTLY think the whole world needs to be a reflection of your bedroom, with women kneeling in subjugation, you need to grow the hell up and grow an extra brain cell. Because the one you were born with is gonna get real lonely and start crying pretty soon.

I'm going to stop reading posts to this thread now, because it causing an enormous reduction in my ability to respect all male dominants and female submissives as people. And there is no excuse for allowing a few genuinely bigoted jackasses to affect my judgment of entire social groups. "


Uhh, can we get an applause, pwetty pweeze?

How to train a man.


How to Train a Man

Let me let you in on a little secret: Despite all their posturing, men are actually really vulnerable to women, and most men will do anything to hide this. Every day, they obsess over women’s bodies, women’s sensuality, women’s opinions of them, their ability to please women romantically and in bed…. and how to cover all that up under the illusion that they are indifferent to whether women like them or not. Some common ways men are encouraged to prove this indifference to themselves and others include disrespectful talk about women with the guys, trying to hurt women’s feelings, and generally defying what women want. Curiously, all such attempts from them seem to require an audience, usually male, which operates as a pep rally for psyching themselves out until they actually believe themselves.

They go to great lengths to hide their constant vulnerability towards the opposite sex from themselves. In relationships, they might hold on to this persistent façade by arguing, being contradictory, teasing and pushing buttons, and acting out in brazen selfishness with anything from using porn to blowing off household chores.

The thing about denial, however, is that the charade used to mask what one is so ashamed of has to escalate in intensity in order to keep blocking out one’s ever-nagging consciousness of it. And so you see some men making public attempts to provoke women with insults, making a show of indifference towards women’s unhappiness with them, speaking about women in a diminutive way with terms that trivialize their womanhood, and even acting out in physical ways against women. They make a hobby out of denying their emotional vulnerability to women’s approval of them, apparently bitter that women still dominate their thought life.

The fact that so many men work so hard to act this way in front of an audience shows just how much their behavior is an attempt to change their social image rather than being an indication of how they actually feel. Why do they have to prove their emotional invulnerability to others if they are so secure about it? Why put so much effort into denying something if they don't have something to hide?

It’s just like what many of us experienced with boys back in elementary school: boys often went out of their way to provoke, insult, and otherwise annoy the girls they actually liked and wanted to be around in order to prevent them and everyone else from knowing it. (Brilliant, eh? Lot of good it did them).

So, if men’s posturing and arguing don’t necessarily indicate what they want, but how they want to appear, what are they hiding? Consciously or subconsciously, men want more than anything to be wanted by women, to be able to attract the focused attention of the woman they're pursuing to the same degree that she attracts they're attention, which is a lot. Why do you think they drop their guy friends so readily once they get love-struck by some mysterious woman?

This means that whatever behavior of his manages to draw her attention and keep it on him largely determines how he treats her, whether that be because he is charming her or pissing her off.

When a man is really interested in a woman, whatever she wants in a man is what he wants to be for her, because he wants his already intense attention and appreciation of her womanly charms to be reciprocated. If she accommodates her own interests, he will adjust his behavior to ensure he continues to remain one of them. Once he has that reciprocation, however, he’s got what he wants so he has no reason to change what he’s doing. That’s alright if what he’s doing is bending over backwards to please you, but not if he’s slacking off. Give a man his ego trip and your attention and he’ll take both. Make him choose between the two and, if he’s into you, he’ll eventually choose your attention and drop the attitude.

Behavior therapy is very handy for this purpose.

The incentive for a man to leave his comfort zone and charm a woman is her expression of pleasure and approval when he responds in a charming way. Consistent acknowledgement of what a man does right will evoke more of the same from him, and willingness to go even beyond that to do other things you suggest. Expressing satisfaction when he does it right is the key to keeping it going.

All men, however, are prone to slip into the selfish modes of their upbringing. If they think they can’t be what a woman wants, they will settle for negative attention from a woman and begin to provoke her. Often, women can reinforce a bad behavior in a man just by giving him extra attention for it, even if it’s negative attention. That’s why negative attention towards men, like nagging or throwing dishes at them, rarely keeps a bad behavior of theirs at bay for very long- it is still a type of attention. This is where your honesty about how his behaviors turn you on or off comes in handy, if it’s expressed as an increase or decrease in your interest.

One of the best ways to discourage a bad behavior then is to highlight your lack of interest in it. Whether he’s just getting to know you or he already knows better, let the loss of your attention be the punishment for his disrespectful or difficult attitude by taking distance from him in whatever way works best for you.

If he complains about your cooking, for example, have him cook for himself the following night while you go out to dinner with a friend. If he teases you or makes jokes at your expense, look at him as if he’s speaking gibberish and acting unusually strange, then postpone your Saturday night plans with him to go out with the ladies to a hot comedy club instead. It will be much funnier than him, apparently. If he argues with your personal decisions, or pressures you to change them, cut your time with him short by saying you have to get up early in the morning and need the whole bed to yourself to get a full night’s rest. Subtle reminders that you have other things you can be doing and other people to see will usually snap a man out of his indifference act.

If he repeats any of these negative behaviors, tell him directly what you don’t like about what he’s doing, and what behavior you want from him instead. If he persists despite your warning, tell him to leave so you can re-evaluate the relationship, then ignore his calls. Don’t argue. Take space and cool down. He’ll regret it later. A woman doesn’t have to get emotional and upset to teach a man a lesson. Just give him a choice.

If you’re in a female-led relationship, you can make a policy of stopping a heated argument by tying him to a chair in the bedroom for a little while and getting other things done around the house. Don’t forget to gag him! It gives him time to calm down and rethink his approach and it gives you time to do something you enjoy instead. Finish that book you’re in the middle of, or order take-out and relax in front of a rented movie.

To complete his lessons, wait until he shows a change of heart and until you’re feeling better, and then give him a chance to rephrase what he was trying to say before. Tell him what behavior you want from him instead of what he did, what type of behavior will please you, and have him do a few practice runs with you right then and there. When he does it to your satisfaction, reinforce this with some light praise.

Then, just to prove to the both of you that he can earn back your trust and confidence in him, assign him an unpleasant task or duty as a punishment for having upset you in the first place. It will prove just how sorry he really is for putting you down and being knowingly offensive. It can be cleaning toilets, buying tampons at a crowded supermarket, or bending over to take a spanking of some sort. You’d be surprised how much better you’ll feel once he accomplishes this as a token of his commitment to change his attitude. And once he endures it, he will feel much more optimistic about trying to be the man you want, now that he has a way to make up for his possible failures and start over with a clean slate from you. The more a man thinks he can be what a woman wants, and knows she won’t tolerate anything less, the more he will try for the positive attention rather than the negative attention.

In fact, assigning a man tasks that benefit you, especially tasks that challenge him, and showing him positive attention when he carries them out, strengthens this positive dynamic, increasing your trust in and satisfaction with him and increasing his sense of adventure in pleasing you.

Physical challenges are the best. Ask him if he can cook a three course French meal totally nude without burning himself or the food. See if he can carry both you and the groceries up the stairs and through the front door at the same time. Have him vacuum the whole house each day with 20-pound weights on his arms and legs. That will help get him in shape. Suggest he practice Kegel exercises and see how many times in a row you can have sex without him losing his erection. There are endless variations on this theme. Make sure when he succeeds to show him how excited and pleased you are by the results of his hard work. Challenge him to make slightly larger sacrifices of his comfort zone than he is used to in order to accommodate your sense of fun, and both of you will be excited when he exceeds his previous achievements. It will increase his excitement about making you ultra happy.

These are just the basics, of course. A woman can develop her own strategies along these same principles, according to what she knows about her partner, and the relationship will take on its own style of conflict resolution and romance.

Training a man is all about a woman getting the most from her man for the building of intimacy in the relationship, which requires him to come out of his privileged status so he can get to know and relate to her more. Helping him break free from ridiculous corporate myths and personal denial by confronting him with his desire for and attraction to her is all part of it. Why should other men's delusions control his state of mind towards her and get in the way of the intimacy between them?



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